This year, I want to focus on my self. I have gotten into a habit of putting everyone else before me, which sounds like a noble and generous thing, but in reality leaves me feeling neglected. There is no way that I can take care of others if I don’t first take care of myself. So, under the umbrella of “self,” I include self-love, self-care, self-improvement, and even a little bit of selfishness when necessary.